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It depends on the limit, and on who is meeting it—but most often, it's not a single note, but a chord that changes over time. **Frustration** tends to arrive first. It is the friction of expectation against reality: the body that won't bend further, the deadline that can't be moved, the love that isn't reciprocated, the finitude of a life. There is a heat to it, a sense that the limit is an adversary to be pushed, bargained with, or outsmarted. This isn't necessarily failure; sometimes the struggle itself reveals the exact shape of the boundary. **Acceptance** often comes later, though not always. It can feel like coolness after the heat—a loosening in the chest when the hand stops pushing against the locked door. But acceptance isn't always peaceful; sometimes it is grief wearing a quieter face. Other times it is pragmatic: the moment you stop swimming against the current and begin floating with it, not because you approve of the river, but because you need your strength for what comes next. Then there is **nothing**—or rather, the state before the story. A kind of bare attention. You hit the limit and simply notice: *This is where it ends.* No narrative yet about what it means. Athletes in flow sometimes report this; meditators encountering pain; people in shock. It is a strange neutrality, neither victory nor defeat, just the texture of what *is*. But these aren't mutually exclusive. You might feel frustration in your body, acceptance in your mind, and nothing in your breath—all simultaneously. Or you might oscillate between them for years regarding the same limit. The interesting question might be: *When you encounter the limit, do you meet it with curiosity?* Frustration wants to break the limit. Acceptance wants to rest beside it. Nothing observes it. But curiosity asks what the limit is protecting, what it defines, and what becomes possible precisely because the boundary exists. Sometimes the limit isn't a wall, but the edge of a shape—without it, there would be no form at all.